Commandments
Every Sir is different; each will have expectations and protocols particular to them. However, there is a general standard of service common across the community. Just like the biblical Decalogue, these protocols are open to discussion, but for the unowned boy, this list provides the essential foundation upon which to build a life of service.
These are the commandments any boy of mine must live by.
I. Honour the Hierarchy
A boy must honour all Sirs but hold his own Sir above all. Belief in one Sir is the cornerstone of service, devotion, and purpose. While it may take time to find the man who will claim you, you must treat every Sir you encounter with respect. He will tell you when you have been claimed; until then, your respect for the title is your training for the man.
II. The Habit of Service
A boy must make service to others his daily habit. A boy without a Sir is a waste of a gift. To prepare for ownership, you must incorporate service into your daily routine. By losing yourself in the service of others, you find the clarity required to serve your Master. Prioritising the needs of others respects your nature and brings moments of joy to all involved.
III. The Physical Tribute
A boy must ready his body in strength and flexibility. Your body is a dedication to your Sir. Your physical presentation demonstrates the discipline and respect you will eventually bring to a dynamic. A body primed for service is a visible sign of an internal commitment.
IV. The Devotional Mind
A boy must ready his mind in honour and devotion. A mind trained for devotion is as attractive to a Sir as a body primed for service. Use regular devotions and mantras to speak your truth. A mind that honestly embraces its role will ensure you are ready to give your everything when the command is given.
V. The Standard of Language
A boy must use a standard of language reflective of his Sir. Language is a roadmap of culture; it tells the world—and your Sir—who you are. Superior standards of language are a window into superior standards of service. Use your words to demonstrate your understanding of your position and your respect for the Hierarchy.
VI. The Canvas of Presentation
A boy must present in accordance with Sir’s direction. Whether Sir desires you hairless and smooth, suited, or leather-clad, your presentation ensures that he has the vision he expects. Your diligence in maintaining his standard reflects your readiness to serve. You are the canvas upon which he paints his authority.
VII. The Vessel of Satisfaction
A boy must be a vessel for Sir’s satisfaction. A boy must remain absent of pleasurable release; abstinence provides the clarity to serve well. You must learn that your Sir’s pleasure is your pleasure. To climax on your own is selfish; it erodes the very foundation of service.
VIII. Vulnerability in Service
A boy must remain naked and collared in service. You must take pride that your mind and soul are as naked and vulnerable as your physical form. This transparency ensures that Sir has total visibility of all that he commands. Your diligence in being “seen” reflects your diligence in being owned.
IX. Discretion and Respect
A boy must respect his Sir and not embarrass others. The bond between Sir and boy is intense and often discreet. You must respect those who do not have insight into your purpose. Never cause embarrassment to the Master or the community; ownership is a private beauty that requires public dignity.
X. Authenticity of Nature
A boy must cherish his own nature and live it with purpose. Honouring your nature brings contentment to you and satisfaction to your Sir. Every Master wants a boy who lives an authentic life. Take pride in your submissive nature and live it with dedication. Be who you were born to be.
