Decision Time
Deciding to surrender to Sir is one of life’s major decisions. It can be a turning point; the start of an important chapter. Such a moment is both exciting and fear inducing in equal measure.
Many boys struggle to take the final step, questioning whether the Sir who seeks to claim them is worthy of their sacrifice. A well trained boy knows that once he accepts his Sir’s collar, he has committed to a life in service to Sir. A boy wants to know whether he is kneeling before the man who will become his God.
There are few resources available to help guide a boy. This website and my feed aim to help educate, but a boy may still feel alone. Like a marriage, your surrender to Sir is not without risk.
Ask yourself, does the man I’m about to kneel before exhibit the characteristics of a worthy Sir. How does he stand against the best of these values? Ask yourself, is he worthy of my sacrifice.
There are Protector Sirs, and Destroyer Sirs. Which is right for you.
Tests of a Worthy Sir
1. Unless a Sir can show real compassion he will never see your beauty. He will never appreciate your gift. Give your gift to a Sir who will recognise the burdens you carry. He will know what to so with them.
2. A Sir worthy of your gift will recognise the poser of communication. He will know the importance of hearing what isn’t being said. The art of reading between the lines will be his life quest. He will hear what you don’t yet know.
3. A worthy Sir does not live out of habit. He lives with intent. He will focus on aftercare in order to learn about you and to learn about himself. His quest is to become a better version of himself and a better Sir for you. You are the key to his potential.
4. A Sir worthy of your gift knows it is necessary to set standards for your life and the people you allow in it. He will be demanding and diligent. He knows that effective punishment is served in the soul and delivered with care and attention.
5. A worthy Sir is intelligent enough to have found the things that are more interesting than sex. While the scene is important he recognises there is so much more to being your Sir. He wants to own all of you, not just your momentary desires.
6. A worthy Sir asks questions. He knows that questions are a powerful way of creating safety. He knows that safety doesn’t happen by accident. He knows that your trust is earned and not demanded. He knows your safety is his priority.
7. A worthy Sir knows that without privacy there is no point being individual. Without privacy there is no room for intellectual exploration and creativity. A worthy Sir will give you space to be yourself.
8. Trust is earned with actions meet words. A worthy Sir knows that relationships are based on trust. If Sir or boy have to play detective, it is time to move on. A worthy Sir will trust you and never demand you trust him in return.
9. Honest disagreement is often a good sign of progress and growth. A worthy Sir knows that to grow together you will disagree. He knows that it is not a character flaw to disagree. He knows that his opinion does not diminish yours.
10. No is a complete sentence. A worthy Sir will respect your hard limits. If he doesn’t respect your boundaries, he is letting you know that what you want doesn’t matter. Better to adjust your life to his absence than adjust your limits to his disrespect.
