Know Yourself, Know Your Boy: The Submission Questionnaire
i require complete openness in any submissive, and this questionnaire is a useful way to open lines of communication. There are no right or wrong answers; this is not an exam. We will discuss any areas of concern, and you must answer all questions with total honesty and as much soul-searching as you are able.
The basis of any relationship with me—and your own growth as a submissive—demands total honesty and focused attention to detail. Proceed only if you understand the requirements of submission and are prepared to begin your journey.
Date completed:
Name:
Occupation:
Contact Details (Kik, Snapchat, Email):
Part One: General Background
Health & Safety: Do you use poppers or other drugs? Do you practise safe sex? Do you have any STDs?
Domesticity: How do you characterise your housekeeping and culinary abilities?
Personality: Do you have any strongly held political beliefs? What is your worst habit—the one thing you wish you could stop doing?
Lifestyle: Describe your hobbies and the social activities you regularly engage in.
Sexual Orientation: What is your orientation and your typical masturbation routine?
Availability: What kind of relationship are you presently able to provide? (e.g., Online only, Offline/Meeting often, Long-term/Live-in).
Part Two: Detailed Essay Questions
Please elaborate on each answer. Deep reflection is required.
The Purpose of Slavery: i seek and require the guidance of a Master to…? (What is being a slave going to do for you?)
The Root of Need: i seek a Master because…? (Why do you have this fundamental need?)
The Gift of Service: What do you seek to provide your Master psychologically, emotionally, and sexually?
The Ideal State: Ideally, what would you like this relationship to feel like?
Expanding Limits: Describe your experience with the following and how you would like your limits expanded:
Nipple/Cock torture
Anal play/stretching (including fisting)
Bondage and restraint
Whipping and pain
Watersports (Wet scenes)
Private and public humiliation
Training: In what areas do you believe you require concentrated training?
Concept of Property: What does the concept of ownership mean to you personally?
Remote Service: Describe how you will serve your Master in His absence (online).
Boundaries: List your Hard Limits (non-negotiable) and Soft Limits (activities you endure for Sir’s pleasure).
The Psychology of Orders: What are your thoughts on total obedience? Are there situations where you might hesitate?
Part Three: Interests and Qualifications
Indicate your interest for each activity on a scale of 0 to 5:
0: Hard Limit.
1: Soft Limit (No desire, but will endure for Sir).
5: A major “turn-on”; desired as often as possible.
| Category | Rating (0-5) | Category | Rating (0-5) |
| Anal Play (Bottom) | Humiliation (Verbal/Physical) | ||
| Boot Worship | Chastity (Enforced) | ||
| Catheterisation | CBT (Cock & Ball Torture) | ||
| Caning/Whipping | Housework/Servitude | ||
| Cocksucking/Swallowing | Public Nudity/Exhibitionism | ||
| Electro-Stimulation | Sensory Deprivation | ||
| Enemas (Punishment) | Sounding/Needle Play | ||
| Fisting (Anal) | TPE (Total Power Exchange) | ||
| Gags/Masks/Hoods | Urine (Serving/Swallowing) | ||
| Heavy Bondage | Wand/Electrical Toys |
Final Declaration
i understand that providing accurate answers allows my Sir to realistically assess my qualifications and address any issues in my personality alongside my desire to serve. i submit this with total honesty.
Signature: __________________________


