Know Thy Self

 

Know Yourself, Know Your Boy: The Submission Questionnaire

i require complete openness in any submissive, and this questionnaire is a useful way to open lines of communication. There are no right or wrong answers; this is not an exam. We will discuss any areas of concern, and you must answer all questions with total honesty and as much soul-searching as you are able.

The basis of any relationship with me—and your own growth as a submissive—demands total honesty and focused attention to detail. Proceed only if you understand the requirements of submission and are prepared to begin your journey.

Date completed:

Name:

Occupation:

Contact Details (Kik, Snapchat, Email):


Part One: General Background

  1. Health & Safety: Do you use poppers or other drugs? Do you practise safe sex? Do you have any STDs?

  2. Domesticity: How do you characterise your housekeeping and culinary abilities?

  3. Personality: Do you have any strongly held political beliefs? What is your worst habit—the one thing you wish you could stop doing?

  4. Lifestyle: Describe your hobbies and the social activities you regularly engage in.

  5. Sexual Orientation: What is your orientation and your typical masturbation routine?

  6. Availability: What kind of relationship are you presently able to provide? (e.g., Online only, Offline/Meeting often, Long-term/Live-in).


Part Two: Detailed Essay Questions

Please elaborate on each answer. Deep reflection is required.

  1. The Purpose of Slavery: i seek and require the guidance of a Master to…? (What is being a slave going to do for you?)

  2. The Root of Need: i seek a Master because…? (Why do you have this fundamental need?)

  3. The Gift of Service: What do you seek to provide your Master psychologically, emotionally, and sexually?

  4. The Ideal State: Ideally, what would you like this relationship to feel like?

  5. Expanding Limits: Describe your experience with the following and how you would like your limits expanded:

    • Nipple/Cock torture

    • Anal play/stretching (including fisting)

    • Bondage and restraint

    • Whipping and pain

    • Watersports (Wet scenes)

    • Private and public humiliation

  6. Training: In what areas do you believe you require concentrated training?

  7. Concept of Property: What does the concept of ownership mean to you personally?

  8. Remote Service: Describe how you will serve your Master in His absence (online).

  9. Boundaries: List your Hard Limits (non-negotiable) and Soft Limits (activities you endure for Sir’s pleasure).

  10. The Psychology of Orders: What are your thoughts on total obedience? Are there situations where you might hesitate?


Part Three: Interests and Qualifications

Indicate your interest for each activity on a scale of 0 to 5:

  • 0: Hard Limit.

  • 1: Soft Limit (No desire, but will endure for Sir).

  • 5: A major “turn-on”; desired as often as possible.

CategoryRating (0-5)CategoryRating (0-5)
Anal Play (Bottom) Humiliation (Verbal/Physical) 
Boot Worship Chastity (Enforced) 
Catheterisation CBT (Cock & Ball Torture) 
Caning/Whipping Housework/Servitude 
Cocksucking/Swallowing Public Nudity/Exhibitionism 
Electro-Stimulation Sensory Deprivation 
Enemas (Punishment) Sounding/Needle Play 
Fisting (Anal) TPE (Total Power Exchange) 
Gags/Masks/Hoods Urine (Serving/Swallowing) 
Heavy Bondage Wand/Electrical Toys 

Final Declaration

i understand that providing accurate answers allows my Sir to realistically assess my qualifications and address any issues in my personality alongside my desire to serve. i submit this with total honesty.

Signature: __________________________

Crafted, moulded, created by their rulers, it is only through submission to a worthy Sir that boys become great possessions. Strong, intelligent, resourceful, this boy risks everything to live his truth. Be like this boy. Surrender to Sir. Serve, submit, give your gift.