Know Yourself, Know Your Boy
Key to a successful D/s relationship is good communication. Some Sir’s may find a questionnaire like the one provided here useful in getting an understanding of a potential boy in advance of taking him on. I have in the past offered boy training and this was a useful starting point for a boy in service.
Boys may find it useful to complete this questionnaire in order to know how they will answer when their moment comes.
Master David
Submission Questionnaire
I requite complete openness in any submissive and this questionnaire is a useful way to open lines of communication. There are no right or wrong answers, and this is not an exam. We will discuss any areas of concern you might have, and you must answer all questions with total honesty and as much soul searching as you are able. With clear communication we will both be more assured our individual needs will be met.
The basis of any relationship with me, and your own growth as a submissive demands total honesty and a relaxed, and focused attention to all details requested.
Proceed only if you understand the requirements of submission and are prepared to begin your journey as my submissive.
Date completed:
Name:
Contact telephone number (optional):
Email addresses:
Kik:
Snapchat:
Other means of contact:
Age:
Where you live:
Occupation:
Part One: General Background
- Do you use poppers?
- Do practice safe sex (always, sometimes, with negotiation)
- Do you use drugs?
- Do you have any sexually transmitted diseases?
- How do you characterize your housekeeping abilities?
- Describe your culinary abilities:
- Do you have any strongly felt political beliefs?
- What is your worst habit, i.e., is there anything you do which you wish you could stop doing?
- Describe your hobbies:
- Describe what social activities you regularly engage in:
- Interest in bdsm/service?
- What is your sexual orientation?
- How often do you masturbate and what methods do you use?
- What kind of relationship are you presently able to provide to a Master? (indicate all applicable)
- Long term, live in
- Offline, meeting often
- Offline, meeting occasionally
- Online and offline, meeting often
- Online and offline, meeting occasionally
- Online only
- Not sure yet
Part two: Detailed Essay Questions
All answers are expected to elaborate on the subject matter in question.
1. I seek and require the guidance of a Master to….? (What being a slave is going to do for you?)
2. I seek and require the guidance of a Master because….? (Why do you have the need for a Master?)
3. I seek to provide my Master with….? (psychologically, emotionally, and sexually.)
4. I would ideally like this relationship to feel like…? (physically/emotionally)
5. Describe the following areas that you have endured and how you would like your limits expanded within each situation.
· Nipple/cock torture
· Ass play/stretching including fisting
· Bondage/restraint scenes
· Whipping/pain scenes
· Wet scenes/water sports
· Humiliation private/public
6. In what area(s) do you believe you require concentrated training?
7. What does the concept of ownership and property mean to you?
8. Describe how you will serve your Master in His absence (online)
9. What are your known Hard limits that you would like to maintain? (non negotiable limits that will be respected by your Sir)
10. What are your know Soft limits? (activities you don’t particularly enjoy buy would endure for your Sir)
11. What are your biggest fears about being submissive?
12. What do you look forward to the most about ownership?
13. What are your thoughts about obeying a Master’s orders? Are there any situations in which you think you would hesitate to follow your Master’s orders?
Part Three: Experience Level and Interests
I do not necessarily engage in any of the following-described conduct. However, it is essential that you provide accurate answers so I can realistically assess your qualifications as well as whether I need to address other issues in your personality besides your desire to serve.
Indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of 0 to 5
0 indicates the activity is a hard limit as defined above.
1 indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don’t like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit the Master to do it if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a “soft limit”).
5 indicates the activity is a wild turn-on for you and you would like it as often as possible.
Add detail as appropriate.
Abrasion :
Anal sex (top) :
Anal sex (bottom) :
Anal plugs (small) :
Anal plugs (large) :
Anal plug (public, under clothes):
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) :
Asphyxiation :
Ass licking (giving):
Ass licking (receiving):
Bathroom use control :
Beating (soft) :
Beating (hard) :
Bestiality (k9):
Blindfolds :
Being bitten :
Breath control :
Branding :
Boot worship :
Bondage (light) :
Bondage (heavy) :
Bondage (multi-day) :
Bondage (public, under clothing) :
Cages (locked inside of) :
Caning :
Catheterization :
Consensual Blackmail (risk of exposure)
Electro stimulation (electrical toy) :
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) :
Chains :
Chastity belts :
Clothespegs :
Cock sucking:
Do you swallow?:
Collars (worn in private) :
Collars (worn in public) :
Cuffs (leather) :
Cuffs (metal) :
Denied privacy:
Douches as part of play:
Dildos :
Enemas (for cleansing) :
Enemas (retention/punishment) :
Enforced chastity :
Erotic dance (for audience):
Erotic dance (private) :
Examinations (physical) :
Exercise (forced/required) :
Exhibitionism :
Eye contact restrictions :
Face slapping :
Fantasy rape :
Fear (being scared) :
Fisting (anal) :
Flame (fire play) play :
Foot worship :
Forced masturbation :
Forced nudity (private) :
Forced nudity (around others) :
Forced servitude :
Full head hoods :
Gags (cloth) :
Gags (inflatable) :
Gags (phallic) :
Gags (rubber) :
Gags (tape) :
Gas masks :
Given away to another Master (temp) :
Servicing another Master upon command:
Golden showers/WS :
Hairbrush spankings :
Hair pulling :
Hand jobs (giving) :
Harnessing (leather and or rope) :
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) :
Hoods :
Hot Creams on genitals:
Hot oils (on genitals) :
Hot waxing :
Housework (doing) :
Human puppy dog :
Humiliation :
Ice cubes :
Immobilization :
Interrogations :
Leather clothing :
Leather restraints :
Licking (non-sexual) :
Lingerie (wearing) :
Manacles & Irons :
Massage (giving) :
Massage (receiving) :
Medical scenes :
Modeling for erotic photos :
Photographing your training sessions with your Master:
Mouth bits :
Multi-partners:
Mummification :
Needle Play:
Nipple clamps :
Nipple rings (piercing):
Nipple play/”torture” :
Nipple weights :
Oral/anal play (rimming):
Over-the-knee spanking :
Orgasm denial :
Orgasm control :
Outdoor scenes :
Outdoor sex :
Pain (severe) :
Pain (mild) :
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce):
Piercing (permanent) :
Punishment Scene :
Restrictive rules on behavior :
Rubber/latex clothing :
Rope body harness :
Role playing:
Sensory deprivation :
Serving as furniture :
Serving as a maid :
Serving as toilet (urine) :
Serving orally (sexual) :
Serving other Masters (supervised) :
Serving other Masters (unsupervised):
Serving others as sex slave:
Shaving (body hair) :
Shaving (head hair) :
Slave positions training:
SPH (small penis humiliation):
Spanking :
Speech restrictions (when, what) :
Spitting :
Spreader bars :
Stocks :
Strapping (full body beating) :
Suspension (upright) :
Suspension (inverted) :
Suspension (horizontal) :
Supplying new partners for Master :
Swallowing urine: yours?; others?
Tattoos:
Tickling :
TPE:
Uniforms :
Verbal humiliation :
Violet Wand (electrical toy) :
Voyeurism (watching others) :
Video (watching others) :
Video (recordings of you) :
Waxing (hair removal) :
Whipping :
Wooden paddles :
Wrestling :
