Q&A with Sir David

FWA Interview

You may remember the blog, FWA of Fags Worship Alphas as it is correctly known, written and supported by Faggot Sam.  Unfortunately for various reasons the site came down a year or so ago.  Sam has reinvented his site  hierarchypodcast.com and I recommend it to you as it provides discussion on many questions particularly from an experienced boy’s perspective.  As it says in the title, he also runs an interesting podcast which again covers some key questions of interest to boys everywhere.  Faggot Sam can be found The Hierarchy Podcast  And on X as @hierarchypcast, links are at the bottom of the page.

I was fortunate to be approached by Sam to be interviewed for his original site.  Unfortunately the article has been lost, but I thought I’d share the original Q and A I did with Faggot Sam that the article was based on.

If anything, you’ll learn more about the Sir behind ExecutiveSir.

Q and A with Sam the Faggot

How old are you?

48 

How would you classify your sexuality? Are you gay or straight?

I don’t like labels and believe we’re all on a spectrum.  I’m married with children, but own boys at the same time.   

When did you lose your virginity, and who was it?

I was 16 and he was my best friend. He’s now married with children and is my father’s Doctor.  

When did you first come to understand the purpose of faggots?

Over the last 10 years I’ve come to understand the inner desire of some boys to want to serve and give of themselves to other men.  I’ve come to learn that this role brings them peace and solace.  I’ve also learned that I enjoy receiving their gift.  It makes me feel strength and drives me to be worthy of their sacrifice.  I find it a beautiful thing providing the space for a boy to live himself fully.  

How old were you when you owned your first faggot/boy?

I owned my first boy when I was 35.  His name was Jake.  He was a 19yo Law Student. He really opened my eyes to the satisfaction service gave him and how he needed all I could give him to feel alive.  It really was an awakening for both of us at the time. 

Was there a moment/experience in your life that crystalized your understanding of Hierarchy?

This is a difficult question.  I expect it was a moment with Jake.  Jake was a magnificent specimen of boy hood, intelligent, physically strong, the world at his feet, yet I vividly remember a moment where he was at my feet, covered in my nectar and my piss, his face red and covered in his throat slime a consequence of the exertion I had submitted him to, yet he looked up at me with such devotion, such genuine appreciation for all that I was to him.  I look back at that moment and realised I gave him what he needed, and he allowed me to be all that I need to be.  Both of us living our purpose and gaining strength from the experience. 

Where do you place yourself in the Hierarchical pyramid?

I think that is for others to judge.  But I will say, I have money, health, lead in my vanilla life and am respected by my community and respected by the boys who serve me. 

Do you believe that Alphahood/faghood are inborn traits given to us at a genetic level, or something we learn or choose?

I believe it is a mix of nature and nurture.  I believe we are born with innate characteristics which are shaped by experience. A boy may have overcome his nature of submission and built a successful career where he leads for example, yet he will come to me and call me Sir.  His experience has taught him to parody what society expects, yet his nature needs to be exercised through service. 

Do you think we can escape what we are Hierarchically or change roles?

I expect there are elements of each of the roles within us.  Experience and time may allow an individual to take different roles at different times in his life, but generally I believe you are either a natural leader or you’re not.  Yes, the skills of leadership can be taught, but you will need to work harder at them.  And frankly, I don’t see the point of being anything other than who you are.  All roles are beautiful and should be celebrated in their own right. 

What is the longest period of ownership you’ve had over a faggot/boy?

I’ve built some of the deepest relationships in my life with boys I’ve owned.  While ownership will take different forms as circumstances change, the connections remain.  One boy I met with he was 18 and he is now 30.  He served me for several years and I was master of ceremony at his wedding and am Godfather to his son.  His wife knows I am important in his life, but not the nature of our relationship.   

Do you believe the word “faggot” is useful or detrimental?

It’s not a word I use.  I don’t generally use ripe language, so it doesn’t sit well with me.  However, I do see the power of appropriating a word that others would use as insult, as a means of gaining strength. One of my boys would dearly love me to insult him and call him names like this, it’s just not what I do so we find other Sir’s to meet this need.   

What are your thoughts on chastity?

I think it is to be encouraged.  It is a powerful symbol of submission and a constant reminder of ownership.  While it is challenging, the challenge brings a boy and his Sir closer.  There is no running away when things get tough, and there is a deep bond that develops that cannot be replicated as quickly or as powerfully thought other means. 

If you must discipline, what do you consider to be the most effective method?

I tend to attract a more intelligent boy into service.  As such, I find that I merely need to point out their misdemeanour and they will be harder on themselves than I ever would.  The power of disappointment is often overlooked.  However, I do find traditional means of discipline very useful in other circumstances.  Corner time, spanking, whipping etc. are very useful to help a boy get out of his head.  I find many boys over think things and can get into a spiral of self-doubt and self-destructive thoughts. Traditional discipline, together with genuine aftercare is a trusted way of breaking this cycle. 

You speak a lot about purpose. What do you think is the purpose of both Alphas and faggots?

I believe purpose is about living what is deep in your nature.  For a boy, the need to submit is often recognised, but the pressure of others expectations keep it hidden.  I find it a waste that a boy may live his life never really experiencing all that he was born to be.  Submission is a beautiful gift and needs to be celebrated and cherished, not hidden away and unexplored.  Similarly, for Sir’s and Masters, society’s expectations often limit what we dare to expect as our own.  Leadership is equally beautiful and needs to be cherished by the boys who need it.  I believe we need to all stop living to other’s expectations and live our truth and be truly authentic with ourselves.  To live an authentic life, is to live a happy life. 

You said you currently owned a boy and had five in training. How does this boy serve? What are your plans for the others?

My best boy serves in person and online when we are apart.  We see each other when we can and speak every day.  As my feed shows his morning and evening presentations are often the highlight of my day.  He is locked for me and will remain locked permanently.  It is right for him, and right for us.  

I started my training programme as I believe it a tragedy for so many boys to live a life without experiencing the joys of service.  There are 30 lessons in the course each exploring a different element of service.  In truth most boys drop out in lesson two, but those who continue go on to excel and learn what it is they need to do to find a worthy Sir. When they complete the course, they are exhibited in the hope of finding them a permanent owner. 

While I’m open to owning more boys, I require in person service, so logistics are a limitation. 

What are your thoughts on findom?

Findom is a very valid expression of submission and I know many boys enjoy it.  My concern are the unscrupulous people out there who call themselves “Masters” who are no more than charlatans. Expressing gratitude with gifts is as old as history. I simply suggest that boys ensure those who they tribute are worthy of their attention and generosity.  

In my own situation, I often take control of a boys assets and finances.  I do this because I am very comfortable with money management and I find decisions easy to make.  For me it’s part of the responsibility of ownership.  If a boy chooses to use some of his allowance to buy me gifts all I see is a boy devoted to his Sir, and that makes me happy. 

Do you believe in breeding?

I think there is nothing more natural that a boy wanting to receive his Sir’s seed.  It’s a deep and powerful way of building connection.  It is honest and true and as it should be. 

What is the most perfect experience you’ve yet had with a faggot/boy?

Without doubt the most perfect experience has been the deep and long-lasting connection I’ve developed with my boys.  I know I will be part of their life for a long time and that connection brings me great joy.  Service and ownership are so much more than the sex or the play. In fact, I don’t do role play.  I simply explore the roles we enjoy in all its forms and stretch and challenge the boundaries of what is possible.  Sometimes that involves sex and play, sometimes so much more. 

What are your thoughts on fringe activities like piss play, rimming, etc.?

I believe we should cease judging what other people enjoy, and focus on exploring our own boundaries.  Over the years my repertoire of activities has broadened and changed and at this stage I doubt I’d say no to much within the right context.  I encourage everyone to explore all play and to keep an open mind. 

Is foot worship important to you and why or why not?

I very much enjoy foot worship most particularly because I enjoy massage of any type.  A boy on his knees massaging and worshipping my feet as we chat about whatever concerns or amuses us is one of my happiest thoughts.  While I recognise this scene doesn’t fit the traditional view of foot worship, for me is says everything about what it means to be a Sir and a boy. 

Some of the subs who’ve served you or were owned by you went on to get married and have kids. Do you consider that to be a mistake of self-denial? To what do you attribute that clear misdirection of their lives? 

I believe the two boys who went on to live a more traditional lives came from backgrounds which placed huge expectations on them. I expect in time their true nature will bubble to the surface and the energy required to suppress it will overwhelm them. However, I don’t believe sexuality has much to do with service.  The need for a boy to serve transcends who he is attracted to.  Serving a Sir who is worthy and gaining satisfaction from the act of worship is only loosely related to any concept of sexuality in my experience. 

Do you have your training program written down? Is it published somewhere? 

No, my programme is evolving all the time as different boys provide feedback.  There seems to be two types of boys, those that drop out early and clearly don’t have the stamina required for service, and those who move through lesson and complete the full journey.  At the end of the course a boy will have had a taste of much of what might be expected of him in service and will have developed his hard and soft limits. 

Which do you prefer? Fucking a boy’s pussy or fucking his throat? 

I find them both enjoyable, but I would say my favourite is whichever the boy struggles most with. Service is about growth and if you are not challenged, you are not growing. 

What do you consider to be the primary differences between your interactions with females or your wife, and your interactions with your owned boys? Which feels closer to your heart? 

Both relationships are equally important to me but in different ways.  My family life is about partnership and providing a solid and loving home for my children.  My relationship with my boys are amongst the most important in my life.  I find them a source of strength and motivation.  My boys always driving me to be a better version of myself, so I can be a better Sir for them.  I don’t see a time in my life where I wouldn’t own a boy. 

With your locked boys, do you allow them time out of the cage to masturbate, or do you milk them? Also, do you handle the cleaning of your boys and their cages personally? 

My boys are not allowed to touch their cage other than for comfort or cleaning.  No time is allowed out for masturbation.  A boy is milked in person, or where that is not possible is allowed to climax through anal stimulation if he can manage it. A boy attends to his own cleaning.