Be Creative: The Architecture of Non-Sexual Service
Many boys at the beginning of their journey see their role as purely sexual. Similarly, many older boys believe their days of service are over once they are “replaced” by more physically attractive peers. This is a fundamental misunderstanding. Service comes in many forms; non-sexual service is often more demanding, requires more discipline, and is ultimately more rewarding for both parties.
The following series, originally shared in the early days of Executive Sir, provides a blueprint for a life of meaningful devotion.
The Service Catalogue (Part 1 of 25)
1/25 – Shoe Maintenance: Cleaning Sir’s shoes ensures he is always presented well. It allows you to be humble before Sir and demonstrates to others in public that you serve him well. The state of a Sir’s shoes is a direct indicator of the quality of his boy.
2/25 – Quiet Presence: Being a Sir is demanding. Always ensuring a boy has the discipline required for his purpose can be draining. Quietly existing in service—placing no demands, but existing as a useful tool for his relaxation—demonstrates profound devotion.
3/25 – Domestic Stewardship: Your role is to lighten the burden of Sir’s demanding life. Keeping his home, office, or even a train carriage clean and tidy shows respect. Do all you can to make his environment pleasant; he deserves it.
4/25 – Tributes and Tithes: Historically, subjects offered a percentage of their income to their King. Tributes allow you to serve when not physically present, providing a consistent demonstration of your sacrifice and bringing Sir closer to you.
5/25 – Professional Attendance: Sir maintains a position in society to protect and direct your purpose. Support his endeavours by attending to him while he works—coffee, tea, or quiet company show you understand his burden.
6/25 – Morning Rituals: Wake before him and prepare breakfast. Setting the morning in order ensures both boy and Sir begin the day living their respective purposes.
7/25 – Valeting: A Sir’s presentation reflects the quality of his boy. A crisp, laundered, and ironed shirt shows the world that Sir is respected and cared for as he deserves.
8/25 – Gardening: Sir is proud of his presentation, and his garden is no different. Relieving him of this physical burden while maintaining his high standards is an excellent expression of devotion.
9/25 – Chauffeur Services: Driving can be stressful. Remove this friction by ensuring Sir never has to deal with the discomfort of a taxi, nor the stress of traffic and parking.
10/25 – Physical Presentation: Your pleasant and healthy appearance elevates Sir in company. Work hard on your fitness and grooming to make him proud of the property he keeps.
11/25 – Maintaining Flexibility: Sir will require a great deal from you physically. Improving your flexibility through stretching and yoga ensures his desires are never limited by your physical inability to deliver.
12/25 – Massage: Sir’s stress can be eased by a boy well-trained in massage. Take a course, practise on others, and perfect your craft. The hours spent improving yourself directly benefit your Sir.
13/25 – Fleet Management: Ensure Sir’s car is serviced, valeted, and fully fuelled or charged. Always be on the lookout for ways to ease his daily logistical burdens.
14/25 – Luggage and Portaging: When travelling or on a daily commute, ease his burden by carrying his bags. The small acts of physical assistance matter.
15/25 – Intellectual Self-Improvement: i prefer an intelligent and motivated boy. Study, work hard, and maximise your potential as a tribute to your Sir. Make yourself a high-value asset he is proud to claim.
16/25 – The Devotional Diary: It is often difficult for a boy to speak his heart. Keep a private diary of your innermost thoughts and share these with your Sir so he may know your soul fully.
17/25 – Thoughtful Gifts: Tokens of appreciation and treats show Sir how much you think of him. A well-timed gift demonstrates that he is always at the forefront of your mind.
18/25 – Floral Arrangement: Fresh flowers at home or the office are a luxury. Ensure Sir is surrounded by the beauty of nature by perfecting your skills in flower arrangement.
19/25 – Oenology (Wine Appreciation): If you serve an Executive Sir, he likely enjoys fine wine. Learn his palate and ensure you know what to order so he never faces the disappointment of a bad glass.
20/25 – Exhibitionism: Learn to be comfortable on display. Any modesty or discomfort is a barrier to your Sir’s pleasure. Make him proud to exhibit his boy to the world.
Serve, submit, give your gift.
