A Boy's Journey
In this article by Fag Tom, he tells of the 6 stages of chastity. From denial, to permanent locking, a boy must go on an emotional journey. With the support of an Alpha a boy will come to experience a deep and profound acknowledgement of his truth.
Stage 0 - Denial
At this stage, a fag/boy tries to convince himself that his penis is a sex organ. This stage often comes at a younger age, when the fag/boy experiences with sexuality and tries to use his nub as more than what it truly is. He tries to penetrate or to get sucked. But something is always wrong. He can’t stay hard very long, the penis is too small to please the partner, the fag/boy can’t achieve orgasm, etc.
Stage 1- Introduction
At this stage, the fag/boy has usually built a certain sexual mind in which he has several kinks or fantasies. For fags and boys, this sexual mind evolves around sexual submissiveness towards Alpha Men. That is when the fag/boy is introduced to chastity. It has become more and more mainstream and is now everywhere : on bdsmlr, on twitter, etc. At first, the fag/boy’s reaction is surprise and fear : he is somewhat curious and excited about it, but thinks it is painful, difficult to start with, or not something normal.
Stage 2- The First Obsession
At this stage, the fag/boy has become obsessed about chastity. He chooses porn material that always contains chastity as a key element and is now seriously considering purchasing one.
Stage 3- Put a Ring on It
At this stage, the fag/boy has purchased a cage and tries it on. At first, it feels strange and uncomfortable. The boy wears it for a couple of hours, browses the internet for porn, then takes it off to wank. At this stage, the cage is an accessory that is linked to sexual desires and fantasies.
Stage 4- The Second Obsession
Chastity has become the central theme around which the fag/boy gets sexually aroused. The fag/boy has researched information about chastity, has chatted with locked boys and is considering longer term use. The fag/boy tries to keep the cage on for more than one day, and manages to keep it on for a few days. When out in public, the fag/boy is very afraid of being noticed. At this stage, the fag/boy starts to understand that its nub isn’t a sexual organ, but that its boyholes are.
Stage 5- Alpha Coaching
At this stage, most fags/boys need a little encouragement and motivation to come over the discomfort that chastity can, at first, bring to their lives. Short nights, pain on the ballsack, having to sit down to pee are some of the many reasons that made the fag/boy stop wearing the cage after a few days in the previous step. An Alpha’s guidance, through a set of rules, specific goals to achieve, constant control and reinforcement can help the fag/boy become a constant chastity wearer, turning the initial fear of being noticed into a strong feeling of self-confidence.
Stage 6- Permanent Lock
At this stage, chastity has simply become part of the everyday life of the fag/boy. The useless nub is not anymore seen as a sexual organ and the aspects that made it difficult for the fag/boy to stay locked have now become a positive reinforcement of the fag/boy’s inferiority : sitting down to pee is now a normal thing that differentiates the fag from a Man, the nights are not short anymore and the ballsack pain is a frequent reminder of the fag’s place in the Hierarchy of Men.
