Tools to support a lifestyle in the hierarchy.
Negotiations: The Architecture of Ownership Contracts are powerful tools. They cement boundaries for both Sir and boy. i find it useful to start with shorter timeframes—from a week to a month—and build from there. Each renewal creates a moment to pause and reflect on what needs to be altered. i set the expectation that […]
Know Yourself, Know Your Boy: The Submission Questionnaire i require complete openness in any submissive, and this questionnaire is a useful way to open lines of communication. There are no right or wrong answers; this is not an exam. We will discuss any areas of concern, and you must answer all questions with total
Decision Time: The Architecture of a Worthy Sir Deciding to surrender is a turning point—the beginning of a chapter that is both exciting and fear-inducing. Many boys hesitate at the final step, questioning if the man seeking to claim them is truly worthy of their life. Once you accept a Sir’s collar, you commit
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Commandments Every Sir is different; each will have expectations and protocols particular to them. However, there is a general standard of service common across the community. Just like the biblical Decalogue, these protocols are open to discussion, but for the unowned boy, this list provides the essential foundation upon which to build a life
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Seek Strength It is right for a boy to face challenges. It is the challenge that makes him stronger and more resilient for his Sir. When a boy faces a challenge, some may wish to call upon a higher power other than Sir. Boys from a religious or spiritual background are often called to prayer.
The Power of Affirmation A boy will know deep in his soul who he is. This doesn’t mean his path is without challenge. Claimed or unclaimed, the regular recital of this affirmation will strengthen a boy’s resolve to live an authentic life. Declared aloud at least three times a day—often more—this will embed a
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