Tools

Tools to support a lifestyle in the hierarchy.

Where Do I Fit?

Test Yourself BDSM and hierarchy generally is a broad church with many of us sharing similar and different interests.  This site is very much a niche on the web for people who share a similar interest selection to me, and follow the principles and philosophy of Executive Sir For Sirs and boys alike, understanding and

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Time to Commit

Negotiations Contracts can be powerful tools. They cement boundaries and expectations for both Sir and boy.  I find it useful to start with shorter timeframes and build up from there.  Each contract renewal creates a moment to pause and think what needs to be altered. I set the expectation that each subsequent contract gives over

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Know Thy Self

Know Yourself, Know Your Boy Key to a successful D/s relationship is good communication. Some Sir’s may find a questionnaire like the one provided here useful in getting an understanding of a potential boy in advance of taking him on.  I have in the past offered boy training and this was a useful starting point

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